Enhance Your Love Map

Enhance Your Love Map

The Love Map… 20 question game

Play this game together in the spirit of laughter and gentle fun. The more you play, the, more you’ll learn about the love maps concept and how to apply it to your own relationship.

Step 1. Each of you should take a piece of paper and a pen or pencil. Together randomly choose 20 numbers between 1 and 60, write the numbers down in a column on the left hand side of your paper.

Step 2. Below is a list of numbered question. Beginning at the top of your column, match the numbers you chose with the corresponding question. Each of you should ask your partner this question. If your spouse answers correctly (you be the judge), he or she receives the number of points indicated for that question. If your spouse answers incorrectly, neither of you receives points. The same rules apply when you answer. The winner is the person with the highest score after you’ve both answered all twenty questions.

1. Name my two closes friends. (2)
2. What is my favourite musical group, composer, or instrument? (2)
3. What was I wearing when we first met? (2)
4. Name one of my hobbies. (3)
5. Where was I born? (1)
6. What stresses am I facing right now? (4)
7. Describe in detail what I did today, or yesterday. (4)
8. When is my birthday? (1)
9. What is the date of our anniversary? (2)
10. Who is my favourite relative? (2)
11. What is my fondest unrealized dream? (5)
12. What is my favourite flower? (2)
13. What is one of my greatest fears or disaster scenarios? (3)
14. What is my favourite time of day for lovemaking? (3)
15. What makes me feel most competent? (4)
16. What turns me on sexually? (3)
17. What is my favourite meal? (2)
18. What is my favourite way to spend an evening? (2)
19. What is my favourite colour? (1)
20. What personal improvements do I want to make in my life? (4)
21. What kind of present would I like the best? (2)
22. What was one of my best childhood experiences? (2)
23. What was my favourite vacation? (2)
24. What is one of my favourite ways to be soothed (4)
25. Who is my greatest source of support (other then you)? (3)
26. What is my favourite sport? (2)
27. What do I most like to do with time off? (2)
28. What is one of my favourite weekend activities? (2)
29. What is my favourite getaway place? (3)
30. What is my favourite movie? (2)
31. What are some of the important events coming up in my life? How do I feel about them? (4)
32. What are some of my favourite ways to work out? (2)
33. Who was my best friend in my childhood? (3)
34. What is one of my favourite magazines? (2)
35. Name one of my major rivals or “enemies.” (3)
36. What would I consider an ideal? (4)
37. What do I fear the most? (4)
38. Who is my least favourite relative? (3)
39. What is my favourite holiday? (2)
40. What kinds of book do I most like to read? (3)
41. What is my favourite TV show? (2)
42. Which side of the bed do I prefer? (2)
43. What am I most sad about? (4)
44. Name one of my concerns or worries. (4)
45. What medical problems do I worry about? (2)
46. What was my most embarrassing memory? (3)
47. What was my worst childhood experience? (3)
48. Name two of the people I most admire. (4)
49. Name my major rival or enemy. (3)
50. Of all the people we both know, who do I like the least? (3)
51. What is one of my favourite desserts? (2)
52. What is the name of my super fund? (2)
53. Name one of my favourite novels. (2)
54. What is my favourite restaurant? (2)
55. What are two of my aspirations, hopes, wishes? (4)
56. Do I have a secret ambition? What is it? (4)
57. What food do I hate? (2)
58. What is my favourite animal? (2)
59. What is my favourite song? (2)
60. Which sport team is my favourite? (2)

The Love Map Exercise